Healing

I've had a cat, and now, I have a dog in Japan.  The cat appeared suddenly in my house, and she was always on the attic.  My family tried to catch her and take her to a place to protect lost stray animals. But we couldn't.  She was moving in the attic every day, and she didn't go out from my house.  On the other hands, when my dog was a puppy, he ran away from my house many times.  Always, someone caught him for us.  Sometimes neighbourhood, children, and the police....  The dog don't like stay in my house.  My dog was always barking to people and another dog, so we needed to educate him to stop barking.  But the cat was always calm.  In addition, the cat can go to outside by herself, and she came back.  We didn't need to care of her.  Just giving meals and playing together. In my dog's case, we had to work together for health.  If I take my eyes off, he might go away.  I always care for my dog.  However, I prefer dogs because a dog was always around me, so I was reassured.  A cat moved anywhere she want to go, and she was outside for a long time.  A animal makes me release my stress, so if I ask "which is your favorite animal, a cat of a dog," I would answer "A dog."

  

Househusband

Please imagine about cooking, cleaning, washing and child care.  Who does it? 
Most people, even women, imagine women or own mother, and they think these works are women's job.  In addition, many men say, "Women should do it.  It's not our job.  We work outside very hard every day."    For decades years, women also had a same idea.  However, the our opinion is changing little by little.  In Japan, some married couples changed their rule; a wife works outside and a husband does housework. In some countries, it is not special, but they didn't accept from society in Japan first because we have a fixed idea.  Their neighborhood thought the husband couldn't earn money more than his wife.  Of course, they had various reasons.  For example, money, health, work and so on.  However, I think that only man doesn't need to work to earn.  A woman can earn enough money to live with own family.  It doesn't matter of gender.  I agree with the idea that a man works at home as a houseworker if a family can live together happily.  I hope the fixed idea is removed and these married couples are accepted by society in Japan more.

A man is essential for me

For me, Comedy is a very important, and I can't live happily if it disappears.  When I was a kid, I can't stop watching comedy program on TV.  My mother always said with angry, "You watch TV program too much!" Always, comedy makes me laugh and forget bad things.  As a result, I can relieve my stress.  After I watched it, I feel better than before.  I think the most great movie is "Mr. Bean".  He says nothing, but his action, movement, and expression make people in the world have a big laugh.  There is no person better than Mr. Bean in the world.  Actually, in my phone, I have some videos of Mr.Bean.  When I feel sad, I'll watch them.  I'm sure that I never feel bored about comedy.

It might relieve your stress

I wanted to play an extreme sport like a skydiving because I want to see a scenery from the sky.  However, I've never tried an extreme sport.  I had an opportunity to be able to play it for three years ago.  Unfortunately, I couldn't play it because of a bad weather.  I really wanted to do it.  But now,  I don't think so.  I feel scared about it.  If my parachute doesn't work....?  If something I don't expect happen....?  Maybe I can't try it because I think many bad things. 
Sometimes, these extreme sport make us feel better.  I think playing it can remove our big stress.  We cannot play an extreme sport easily.  For this reason, it's new way to remove big stress. However, it cannot guarantee own life, so we really must be careful when we play it.  If you succeed, it would be a very good experience for you.